While I’m not sure what my limits are about males concerning women, they aren’t the only things we’re looking to find when we sign a contract to be with you. This isn’t your money, it’s not you avoiding the other women out there, and it has nothing to do with sexuality… It’s not at all.
The reason is that relationships have more to do with the heart and mind and how two people can translate these into real life. Don’t view this as a guideline to deal with women.
Instead, look at this as an instruction manual for building healthy relationships in which women aren’t constantly nagging or getting into a tizzy, and men (you) do not irritate and then leave.
1. Inherited proximity:
Being close may mean different things at various moments. It’s physical and emotional, and it’s also mental. If you combine the three, create a sense of connection that transcends.
You don’t have to be in the same space to experience the connection. However, if you’re at the same distance, the energy between you is enough to disrupt anyone in the room. You’d like to be closed all the time.
From looking her up in the distance to keeping her close because you don’t desire it any other way – that’s how close you get. That’s not even the closest you’ve ever been.
2. Keys of confidence:
She must know with certainty. She must be sure of your intentions or your lack thereof. What do you want to accomplish between you?
Do you have a plan in your bag? Do you see a possible future together or something to get you through the present moment? Whatever the case, the woman wants to know to ensure that she’s not wasting her time with someone or things that haven’t come to fruition in the first.
The words stability and certainty are often synonymous in the mind of women because both terms operate in complete harmony with one another. There’s no stability if there’s no certainty, and there is no certainty if there isn’t any.
3. Lucidity of opinions:
The quality of certainty translates into clarity eventually. If you’re confident about something or someone, then you’ll be clear regarding it through your thinking, words, and actions. In simple terms, it will show in your conduct.
What exactly is clarity? I’m compelled to answer this question as many people don’t know… do you see the difference? Being transparent refers to being aware of the importance of someone to you and making an effort to convey it to them in whatever method you can.
Sometimes, it’s about discussing it; others, it’s just doing something. If you’re clear about someone, you’ll immediately demonstrate that you are clear about it.
4. Fearless actions:
That leads me to my next concern–acting upon the clarity. In relationships, we often do not take action based on impulse, instinct, emotionality, or whatever. This inability to take on that is one of the primary reasons we’re in a situation called “almost-relationships” nowadays.
Perhaps because of convenience, the availability of choices, or the fear of being rejected, we often decide not to act upon an emotion, even though, at the moment, it appears to be it’s the best decision to take. In the end, thanks to it.
Regarding relationships, the movements are more powerful than words, even though, in most cases, the terms are just as and if not more needed. It is essential to have synchronization between your statements and your actions. You cannot do something and then make an entirely different statement.
Confusion can lead to doubt. That’s never an ideal thing.
5. Steady dialogue:
Humans are all communicators, every person. There are many ways of communicating. Some talk, while some listen, and some find ways to communicate without talking about it.
The important thing is to be able to convey your message effectively, and you do it before it’s time. There is never something as too little and too late. Although relationships and connections are about the time that two people spend together and their relationships.
It shouldn’t take long for the time to slip before you’re left wailing over an opportunity that was lost. Communication is the difference between ‘What if” and “Hell Yeah”! Find a way to convey everything you’ve got to say at the right time before it’s gone.